Well, yes, I am probably more accepting. I have skimmed through my old posts and decided to print them (all 358 pages). I want to read them carefully and see if I can identify recurrent patterns. Of course we all know about my major frustrations (e.g. OW's continued employment and my H's offices finances). I just do not want to be caught in endless loops (and I can see no point in making the same mistakes all over).
Which reminds me I never posted the link to my old thread. Here it is: Weeding out the bad
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
