Help - How to Know When There is OP?

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SunnyD,

I do not have much advice as far as your sitch goes with all the great support you have so far.

I do think not overthinking what your H wants is a good start. Picking up on keys issues such as the finances is a good beginning.

Listening to what is be said or done by him will give some indications of what he is needing, but you cannot mind read. Not much to add other than what has been said to you already.

I do wish you the best always.