My wife just texted me wants to stop by and pick up bills and she's asking me "Do I care if she does this?"
What do I say?
"I have decided I will be handling the family finances right now." Then do it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.