ahh the timing actually makes sense. The amusement park idea was to leave the kids with a lasting impression. "It was daddy's idea to go to the amusement park." That is what is sticking in my head. He is playing games. its time to get tough.

Kick him out. Hes living in a dream world. You are doing everything for him. He has a roof over his head and still gets to sleep in the same bed.

Now is not the time to get crazy. Thats exactly what he wants. Tell him you were expecting it and that you spoke to an attorney already just in case (even though its not the truth) By filing for divorce and by talking about divorce, you would be in your right mind to seek professional advice from an attorney.

If you feel the need to vent a little make it brief but I dont even think its worth it. The Truth of the matter was that it was easier for him to say lets talk to a Mediator than tell you that you will be served papers.


Married 10
Together 13
ILYB 1/4/2010
Separated: 1/4/2010
Moved back in 1/28/2010
Reconciled 3/14/2010