You just got hit with another bomb but you are better able to handle it.
Take care of your self the rest of the day.
Pray
Exercise
Call a friend
Eat
Sleep
Play with your kids
No R talks - don't get baited into a fight
In the morning you find a lawyer, you get your finances seperated, and you get serious about DBing. You can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.