Looks like no one has been to this thread in a while. I would LOVE to tell ya'll what I know, but I'm too afraid of anyone who knows me in real life, reading it!
And then, my cover is blown.
So, for now ... suffice it to say that I am much the smarter now, in the past year, than I was to begin with.
It's been painful and enlightening, and strengthening all at the same time. So be it to anyone who needs to know the truth about a cheating spouse. FVF, you are not alone. If you think your H is the worst, please check out my threads from the beginning. You'll get an eyeful.
