Lessons learned at every bend

[Zoo]

Evening OPT

Well Zoo, your post is very illuminating and frankly I suspect you have hit the nail in the head. What you said goes with the known facts so far...

I'm glad that I could offer even a little bit of incite

And sure she has a vested interest! She has been feathering her nest with his office to the point of both CPAs sending him letter of warning... Would buy things for her house with office credit cards and the like.

That is a big NO-NO...proof of nest feathering could be constituted as embezzlement if your H was unaware of all of the liberties she has been taking. Unfortunately, the A could negate this...particularly if your H isn't up to some serious mudslinging. Now if your H were to openly admit to the A and be able to deal with some of the repercussions that might occur (some loss of business, people whispering etc) and has written PROOF from the CPA's (invoices, cc statements, HER sig on those statements)that shows she has been "dipping her hand in the till" so to speak...then MAYBE something could be done

Would YOU be able to deal with some of the nasty stuff that might come out? That is something you really would have to ask yourself. Is it worth all of that to get rid of someone who you seem pretty sure is no more then an annoyance now? A big annoyance to be sure

I think you are definitely on the right track about waiting to ask H gently about this stuff until things are more calm

Hugz,
Zoo