Originally Posted By: ltaylor
yea..pretty much. I don't want to have a H that can do these things to me and think it's ok. That's just wrong and doesn't make him the person I want to be with the rest of my life.


Thats good then, that way you'll always have him to blame and be the victim....

For me, that is disrespectful to anyone that is trying to help you....





Originally Posted By: ltaylor

It was one thing to meet someone, spend time with them and develop feelings for them. That was hard enough for me to deal with. But now to actively be seeking women and probably screwing every woman that comes on to him while he's traveling..no thanks.


You are absolutely correct.....

Unless of course you aren't..



Originally Posted By: ltaylor


And don't think I am not thinking that he's doing it to push me into giving up. Because that could be too. But it doesn't matter why he is doing these horrible things to me..it matters that he's doing them.


Absolutely not thinking that....

That would be quite unfair for me to make an assumption about why or what another person is doing, going through, or feels and turn it to justify MY actions......


Good luck Tay.....