Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

If she's at HOME with YOU then she shows RESPECT

That's the thing. She DOES NOT want to be at home here. ESPECIALLY while I am here.

She is using financial as leverage. She HAS to pay the mortgage no matter what. But the utilities she does NOT if she moves out.

If I agree to sell the house she says she will still pay utilities ect and come and go as she pleases.

If I don't agree she is going to cancel what is in her name, and only pay the mortgage. She is trying to FORCE me into selling the house.

But she does NOT want to be here. So maybe I should give her incentive to get the hell out. OR she can have a nice home and be RESPECTFUL, and I will determine when I am ready to sell.

You are right Allen, she is one MEAN poker player. And she's got hidden chips with her parents money.

I think I am going to ante up (at family counseling on Mon) and tell her that I like NONE of her options, and that I will sell when I am good and ready. She is free to live here with ABSOLUTE RESPECT to me, and not have to beg to her parents.

I will say "You say you are doing what is best for you, well I am doing what is best for me. You can stay at the house as long as you AGREE to certain terms, otherwise get your stuff out and make your own way".

But that still doesn't resolve the issue of WHEN to sell the house. That is her KEY item in all this. And it all depends on me.