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How do I make the boundry and not jeopardize their security in our family.


Boundaries actually make everyone more secure - you, your wife and your kids. You are living in a world without them. How secure does your family feel?

Your wife actually really wants you to stand up to her CB, she can't be attracted to you until she respects you.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.