a. Pursue other men while enjoying the comfort of our home and leaving you to maintain the house and the chores.. basically you become my cuckhold/slave and suffer indefinitely
b. I leave the home and pursue other men elsewhere and suffer by having to maintain my own lifestile with limited resources and the embarassment of being tossed out of my home and stuck with an apartment
c. I stay in the home, respect the boundary of monogamous commitment if/until we divorce and part ways
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She wants option a.. and has been COVERTLY taking it
YOU need to stamp that out when she gets back... Tell he she gets B or C only...
