I read with fascination the legal posts. We have touched on this before, but not so clearly.
I can understand you wanting to ask H about it in these terms too sometime. Maybe it would provide some relief to him if he understood that you are concerned about him and all that he has built. It is about protecting his assets, not about the OW. Does he a business lawyer? Some he could trust to lay it all out in front of and ask for advice how to regain control of his business and eventually remove OW?
That would be a softer approach and while OW is an issue, she wouldn't be primary.
Just a thought. Your positives sound so good. I hope they keep on building too!
Get some more rest!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."
