Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

You guys are completely right about fear.

I DO have the fear that if she ends up out on her own, she is going to bang as much as she can, if not a few guys then one friends with benefits.

In the past 2 years BEFORE the D, she has voiced that she is becoming more sexually aware, and less of a "prude".

I can DEFINITELY tell that by the sex chats with the OM. She said things that I would have thought she EVER would say or want to do with a guy. ESPECIALLY not her husband.

Getting her own place means complete freedom IN HER MIND TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS. And that my friends is going to be alot sexual stuff. She is extremely sexually frustrated right now, and is looking for a REAL outlet.

That terrifies me to death. Who wouldn't be?

That's the honest truth there. I fear losing her to some meaningless sexual escapades, and not an ADULT, CIVIL DIVORCE.

I can deal with a divorce, but her banging away at her own place and making sure I know about it is a little more than I can take.

I DO plan to come up with a 3rd option. ON MY OWN TERMS.