Got it. That makes sense. I would say he's doing 25% right now... I'm not exactly sure how to apply this: I cook 30% of his dinner? LOL. (jk of course) but get the point.
I've gone to 4 counseling sessions so far, but yes, it is expensive, esp. with no insurance to cover it. Cutting back is a good compromise. He knows I'm doing homework because I just did this huge budget sheet and emailed him for input - to show my fiscal responsibility.