Yep, I've hammered that point home and he keeps saying "our kids will be fine. As long as we continue to be good parents they will be fine." I've argued and argued the point, showing him study after study that kids of divorced parents don't do as well and he just keeps saying "those aren't our kids. Our kids will be fine."
I'M DONE. I can't keep trying to convince him he is making a mistake, about the kids, the marriage, the affair. I need to move on. Knowing in the back of my mind that he MIGHT come back. But I can't keep hoping and counting on it. I'M DONE.
