Oh and I was totally the peace maker too...they allowed it! My worst memory was being 15 and sitting my parents down to help them decide who was responsible for paying what bill...I was so desperate for them to stay married! I still can't believe they listened to me and followed my direction and didn't tell me to not worry about it!
My sisters are peacemakers because they know not to talk about something fun they did with dad or dad's wife because my mom will make a snarky comment and get upset. Why does she care? She was the one who divorced him and she is remarried now! But they keep the peace by avoiding conflict which means suppressing their feelings...
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004