Lessons learned at every bend

[optimist]

Thanks Deb. I think you are right, probably detachment and not pressure is the key...

Positives for 11/17/03:
1. He called me at 4 pm to tell me he had my atbs and would bring them when he got home.
2. He gave me my meds and tucked me in bed. Stayed to watch a DVD (not that he could have gone anywhere with my brother there...)
3. He made me coffee and brought me cheese and snacks to bed!
4. He may have said ILY when he left this morning (I am supposed to have said goodbye to him, but cannot remember a thing about him leaving at 6:30 am )

I did not feel at all well yesterday, so we did not snuggle or do things together but that is OK. There will be another days...

I am feeling much better today I still have a racking cough and sniffles but the 'glassy eyes' are gone and I do not feel so miserable