I advocate the 50 - 50 rule

He puts out, you put out.. he backs off you can back off...

It can also apply to emails

if he emails you, reply to half of them...

It all depends on how much he's participating here...

If it looks like he's giving you the full 50% into the marraige I see no reason for you to withold anything.

If he's only giving you 25% then don't give 50%.. give 25% etc

Or may be 30% just to show some initiative...

Your going to FT may just give him teh confidence he needs here.. don't blow it by quitting after just two sessions...

if its money cut back teh sessions but keep the file open and print stuff up at home to read so he can SEE you are doing HOMEWORK