I woudl stay in FT to set an example for him... He will take a sign of you ending FT to be you giving up on changing the marriage for hte better... YOU going to FT gives HIM HOPE and CONFIDENCE
If its expensive, cut back the appointments but ekep lots of books and articles around so he can SEE yo are working on the marriage still... you don't need to se a FT seven days a week, he just needs to see you are putting in the effort
Very good point!
So am I supposed to be "being nice" to him or not?! I am unsure... I sent him a brief text awhile ago and he didn't even respond. (He usually does.) Sure - it could be for a number of reasons - but it's odd for him. It wasn't about anything important - just a sports fact that we'd both normally be interested in. hmmm...
