Can anyone give me a hint as to when the desire to murder the OW wears off?
When you realize she did NOT get the prize being with a cheater/liar
although there is still question of why a woman would do that to another woman. I think for me and its been a LONG time ( 8 y rs) it was when I really did move on and neither her nor ex entered my head much ... that being said when ex dumped OW, I did smile... all day
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