You are right. No agreement was reached in this conversation because I thought she deserved time to consider what was appropriate. Maybe I should have pushed harder, but my plan is to put somehting into writing tonight and to have both of us sign it.
I shouldn't have gotten drawn into the argument and should have walked away, but this is actually the best I have done with my W in terms of standing up since this all went down in January. I am making progress, but do realize I have a long way to go.
I have done a pretty good job of detaching and 180's, so we will see how things go tonight.
