Yeah. the cons of not communicating about the R and temperature checking is mind reading and confusion. Common sense wise, it would make sense to do some temperature checks at various points...just not every week or pressure too much...?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
