Fm- about the the division of assets--I totally get where you are coming from. Originally I said "I don't want half of the house because all I want is for S to be taken care of and I know you will do that...I can take care of myself" and I didn't want his money blah blah

BUT the reality is: THEY are walking away,leaving us without their income...it is almost like they laid us off...so it is fair that we get some financial compensation to make up for the loss of income and to get back on our feet...but ESPECIALLY the stay at home moms (I am returning to work next month)...they were 100% dependent on their H's income!

If the SAHM wants to walk away and take her LBH's money....I feel completely different.

Anyway, I am sure this is a shock and guess what? You don't have to make it the last conversation with him. If you want to talk more, YOU CAN!!!!!

Last edited by newmama; 07/13/10 06:00 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004