Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

Well she can't get an apartment until the end of August.

She is staying with a friend right now.

She is coming by Friday to get my answer.

1) If I agree to sell the house, then she will stay and work on getting the house ready for sale, and stay at her girlfriend's, place when she feels she needs to

2) If I don't agree to sell she will stay at her girlfriend's in between business trips until the apartment is open. So in effect she will be out of the house for like 50-60 days before she gets her apt.

All I am saying is that I FEEL like if she gets her own place then in her mind there is totally no going back, ever. She will have a 1 year lease, paid all those lawyer and divorce bills ect. She is VERY money conscious.

AND I will have no idea what and WHO she is doing. Everything I have been able to blow apart is because of really good intel. Her at her own place eliminates that, and I would be flying blind.

As long as she pays half the mortgage, I don't think I can keep her out. But I can NOT be here when she is.

And my goal is to finish ALL the home improvement projects and make this house so nice that only an idiot would sell it.

My goal is NOT to be here on Friday, and make her track me down and contact ME. Then I want to ignore her and come home REALLY late. If she is here, fine, I don't talk to her.

I will tell her that I will discuss sale of the house at our FC session next week.