Chuck, I know you love her but she is hiding something from you, your family and everyone else. Either she is abusing some other kind of pills, she's involved with OM, or who can guess at this point. Her behavior is showing you a completely different person right now. You need to be prepared for the worst and hope for the best.
Call her D L. They can at least give you a referral. That L can then assess your W's true legal status. They will be watching her every move and yours.
After that, you probably should back away from the situation and let it play out on its on. You've told her ILY, suggested IC, made an appt. After you get her some legal help, that's all you can do. She's going to have to do the rest on her own. You're going to have to protect your girls and yourself.
