I truly believe that MLC or WAH can have those "ahaaa" moments in all that insanity. WTG on the letter...my H and I did better when communicating in writing for quite a while...it aleviated the stress of confrontation for both of us... It must have been some letter...I think letting him know (as i did my H) up front why you are doing it...not to get them back but to protect your family...this puts you in different light then previously...you are not trying to fix him...you are doing what needs to be done and that's it...keep moving girl...even when you don't think so he may be watching!
