I did ask about the affair. I got the answer she gave me, regardless if she lied. I told her if it did happen, do not lie, be honest. I am not angry nor mad. I just want the truth, I had already forgiven her. Still you (W) will still have to rebuild my trust in you, as you (w) did hide this from me. We both have a trust issue thaat will need rebuilding.

So far,she has not been in contact with OM, base on my intel. So far, she is showing herself to be working on reconiliation.

My wife is leaving for another business trip. NO where near OM and this time she will ride and stay with other friends, that I know well. I am not worried about this.

What I am cautious about is that, next week we(kids and I) leave on vacation with my parents. They did not want W coming with us due to the D. I think if I give W space during this next 10 days and give my kids all I can, it will be a BIG factor in her regaining trust in me. I will still keep my guard up on her. If she pulls thru this too, I will have regained some trust in her.

Yes it is like having to know my wife all over again. ...Sad isn't it?

Last edited by CPCajun; 07/13/10 05:18 PM.
Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10