Speaking of songs, my H seems to like a lot to put on an old Mexican 'ranchera' called 'Echame a mi la culpa' ('Blame me'). It is addressed to the WAS by the LBS. Here is the translation of the lyrics:

Blame me
You know better than anyone than you have failed me
that what you had promised, you forgot
You know for sure that you betrayed me
though no one will ever love you as much as I

I have many reasons to despise you
however I want you to be happy,
I wish that in the next life you find not hell but heaven
and a cloud from your memory erases me

Tell whoever asks you that I did not love you
that I betrayed you, that I was the worst
blame me for everything that happens
cover your back with my pain.

And I wish that in the next life
you find not hell but heaven
and a cloud from your memory erases me

Do I think he wants to tell me something or it is only wishful thinking?

"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little" Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"