Here's the thing, Pinhead......you just signed up for the buddy-buddy system and it doesn't work well in a MR. It will quickly turn into more resentment and more bad behavior.
She has told you that she does not want you. But, you aren't really listening to that. You and she had a long talk and may feel better.....and she may act better for a few days, but trust me, she isn't going to stick to the "no open M" boundary. She will be looking for OP to make her happy and you will be watching her....frustrated b/c you are not seeing her work on the M. That's the thing.....even though she's told you that she wants out of the M......you will continue to watch her and wonder why she isn't working at the R.
This type of arrangement can wear you down to a stump unless you really have a good mental attitude.....such as Coach laid out.
BTW, is she doesn't want to sleep in same bed.....she needs to move to another room, but you stay put in the master bedroom.
I catch you later when I have a bit more time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
