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Basically we would act like a normal, happy couple.


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Or am I putting myself in a damaging, dangerous situation that'll be bad for my mental health, as well as for my children?


So what is the solution? Nothing has changed.

Are you willing to live like this?

Goals -

Marriage

Health/Physical

Mental/Intellectual

Professional

Financial

Emotional

Social

Hobbies

.......

Lead your family, your wife is either all in or you will decide how to best get a D.

Limbo will suck the life out you, you have choices. Get busy.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.