Ok I get that this disconnect is good for me in that it keeps me away from the "drama" and any setbacks, and it's also got to help me detach in some way assuming that he never has interest in reconciling, but what exactly does this do to him--I'm just curious, how do most WAS's respond when the LBS detaches to this degree rather than beg and plead for reconciliation? I've read what is said in DB, but I guess I'd like some more info on that.


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Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
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