I am seeing a counselor. Still just a little dazed and confused. I know you guys are right but I do still have feelings for this person but you are right she is married. I just don't respect her vows. I would not mess with a married women this just seems different when she is calling crying saying she made a mistake. I guess if she did she can get herself out of it. I can't defend her as much as I want to in any way that makes since.