You have every right to be angry. It's not fair. And it's definitely the short end of the stick when we give our best in life and only get back pain. I understand about S too. It's not fair that our H's get them for fun times when we have raised them and stuck it out thru all the hard times. There is not alot to say b/c everything you have said is spot on and the complete truth - not to continue to flame the anger, but just to let you know I have complete empathy. Take the anger for what it is and then be ready to move past it, so that it doesn't consume you.
If you don't want to be the one to D, then just remove him out of your life completely with your set S schedule as if you were D. At some point though, you may want to file just so you can get the financial support you deserve. These situations are just so awful tho. Why can't our H's be more like us! Grr. It's so exhausberating! =/
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
