the advice was not to get kicked out of your home with your tail caught between your legs, leave because you want to leave, not because your WAS wants you to leave so they can have their affair partner move in and sleep in your bed.
- there is a difference!
Correct. BIG difference. ONE of you is leaving because you will NOT tolerate or live with or be with someone having an affair. I believe it should be YOU since you had the affair. The sooner the better. I will even help you pack. What say, by the end of next week..
Then if they don't or won't... Then YOU move..... The key is that you will NOT tolerate an affair while living under the same roof..
Remember to get your ducks in a row first... Cover all bases.
First you push, pull, nag, whatever it takes to convince them they are moving.. Then if not.. Plan B.. YOU MOVE.. YOU are deciding....
