Yep.. feels good to keep away from that drama doesn't it?

THe less of his stuff that's there the better...

You can arrange with teh post office to ahve his mail redirected as well... He's using his mail as an excuse to visit and reconnect with teh home, even if you aren't there...

Have his mail sent elsewhere and his belongings boxed and dropped off at a neutral location - dry storage is good for this...