Tonight her parents are going to make it known that they know about the affair and that her actions are unacceptable.

I'm wondering if tonight may be a good night to have plans that involve staying somewhere else? I really don't want to catch the whirlwind of emotion that she's going to go through immediately following the discussion with her parents.

Or I could have plans that make me stay out late again and come home "after bar closing time" (I did this approach last night, but actually went and slept at my parents for a while, then came home.)

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done