But it still hurts that she is gone from the house. I can't help that. I am TRYING TO. But what she said about "if not him then some other guy who wants to blank me".
Even her mom says that there is absolutely positively no hope for this marriage.
But when she was packing and talking to me, I DID NOT SHOW ONE BIT OF EMOTION.
Her mom seems to think that my wife wasn't leaving the marriage because of the OM. But I guess I will NEVER know unless I had exposed him and MAYBE start to lift her fog.
Did you wife leave the house Allen? My wife appears so over and done with this marriage that EVERYONE around her sees it.
Even the toughest people need a moment to let their feelings out. I have some dark, dark days ahead of me.
My wife even used her friend's Facebook account to try and contact the OM.
She just let the insults and hurting statements FLY at me. Oh I had my suit of armor on, but when she left I had to take it off and look at the billion dents.
Amazing how she cheated on you and made you her enemy. This is truly some evil stuff. I wonder what Dr. Phil would have to say about it, because you know that he's not going to let any of her irrationalizations ride.
It's obvious you can't really worry about what she says, but you should be aware of what she does. She can be a danger to you and this is what you need to be concerned about.
Best wishes to you my friend.
And when Allan A mentioned something about a bunch of "yes" men showing up to show OM the door or to ensure a DB brother handles his business, I for one would love to get on a plane or take a car ride to be part of this.
