Stop contacting her. As Mr Bond said, quit focusing on the past...move on. She has already married someone else, I'd let her go. But....If you really want her back, she has to come to you. Quit forcing it on her.

You need to GAL and do the 180's. Improve yourself and get the "bad" out of you. If you change yourself, not only she will notice, but every other woman that is around you. Bet the catnip for all the kitty's out there.

Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10