I don't think she will ADMIT she got played. She has been wanting out of here for a long time now. This is just her excuse. And she sure as Hell doesn't think I was protecting her.
Like I said she will be coming back here on Friday to get my "answer".
I totally understand that she's miserable. I get that she's angry. But this is as far as she has pushed it yet. The poker stakes have been raised significantly.
She says now "He never was 'the one' for me". I mean the venom that comes out of this woman is horrific.
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You could send her mother some flowers and a short note thanking her for all her hard work in trying to protect her daughter too. You thank her for trying.
Already did it last week....
QuickSilver264,
A cheating spouse has all sorts of irrationalizations that drive their decisions after getting comfy in an affair. Many of these irrationalizations have no basis in reality, because they really are "pushing it" in life. It will come to them later and it will sting with lots of pain and hurt, if they don't get to their phaze they may just stay in the "crazy" realm and you won't want to put up with this anyway.
