Originally Posted By: Quicksilver264
Well she's left and gone.

@Puppy. HOW do I do that? She seems dead set on "getting some" and making sure she hurts me as much as she can for exposing the affair.

She said "So you've 'changed'? Well this new changed guy that does something stupid like this now has to live with the consequences".

I have 2 options with her she said

1) Put up the house for sale Aug 1, and she will stay at home the 2 weeks she isn't on business

2) Keep the house and she will stay with her ENABLING friend, and get her apartment at the end of Aug.

Her having her own place would be a complete disaster I think.

I have about 50 days BEFORE she would move into her own place. And then another 38 BEFORE the 90 days cooling off period is over with.


While they are worried about pounding you with their actions, the absolute best thing you can do is to GAL and not think about them.

I'd be doing a lot of activities I like to do and many that I need to do during this time. Plan it and get it done.

Get out the house. I'd be partying it up too in hindsight.