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It is alot of time I am asking you for but I have read some of your posts and respect what you say. I wished you would quote on my stuff alittle more. I don't know, I just wished that you would help me a little


Par,

I would love to help you. However, you told us on your thread HOW you wanted us to post to you. I believe you told us what you didn't want to hear. I am not the type to let the one asking for advice tell me how or what advice to give them. That is like letting the patient tell the Doctor how to heal him and to tell the Doctor what medicine to prescribe and if the Doctor doesn't agree with what the patient has told the Doctor to do, then the Doctor must shut up...

Do you understand my position? I would be glad to help you, but I may not tell you what you want to hear, but what you need to hear and what you need to do to give you the best possible chance to reconcile. I may even tell you things that would sound to you like I am telling you that it will never work and to just give up. That is not what I am on here for. If I tell you to act like you are giving up, it is actually because it is your best chance to get her back. Understand that?


If you still want my advice then let me know. I just wanted to clarify my own stance.