During our time out and about, I did not engage in any R talk. There were few times where I did place hand on W's leg while driving, place hand on small of her back while standing in store and hold her hand while walking. W did not reject any.
Good job.. Remember.. Don't ASK.. Just do...
Just keep it simple.. Those things are fine if she isn't rejecting you. Just play it by ear.. Good job in holding her hand while walking...
I think you did great... The only thing I would caution you about is the relationship book and the counseling.. Don't be so caught up in healing this relationship that you PUSH her on those issues.. YOU just keep doing what you are doing now. If you push this counseling and relationship book issue too fast and too far, it could backfire...
You aleady forgot what I warned you about a couple of days ago didn't you ?
Stop this obsessive worrying and live in the moment and be a HAPPY man.. Just be silent and let your actions do the talking. Quiet confidence. Back off on the counseling and books. What difference does it make whether you go to counseling or read a book together if you are moving forward without it? NONE ... Sometiems too much counseling and trying to work on the relatonship backfires. It brings up the past. Just live in the moment. Let HER bring up the counseling and stuff when she is ready. If she doesn't WHO CARES as long as the relationship is moving ahead.. And YOUR'S IS MOVING FORWARD NICELY.. Enjoy it and enjoy planning the vacation together and then go have a great vacation with her.
All in all, you are NOW on the right track. Just keep plugging forward. Please try to be happy and enjoy it.
