Allen, you are SO wise! This is EXACTLY what it's like!
When you're a teenage girl in the throws of first passion, you believe ANYTHING your boyfriend tells you because you "love" him. He couldn't possibly lead you astray or have a hidden agenda....right? (HA,HA,HA!)
This is the same thing. But instead of trying to get INTO your pants, the WS is desperate to get out of the marriage. Throw some cold water on her, stat! She needs to cool off!
I was thinking of you when I wrote it Red, I figured you would get a kick out of that one.. And bear in mind, i am a guy, I haven't even heard all of the excuses...
I am sure you can add to the list... But yes the reasoning is the same...
Except as you put it instead of trying to get INTO your pants, the WS is desperate to get out of your pants[out of the marriage]
And note in both cases Red the results are
a. Conflict with your spouse (she's not ready etc and you fight and start to grow up) b. You end up regretting being such a jerk AFTER you grow up and wish you could take it all back but its TOO LATE
