My W wants to use a meadiator and I'm OK with it so far.
As long as the two of you can agree on the division of assets and custody of the kids you will save alot of money. Im in the process of negotiating with W on the financials, the kids are 50/50. She wanted them M-F and said I could have them on the weekends, how convenient for her. I told her I need to have them morethan that and we should keep the arrangiement the way it is.
I get them Saturday afternoon until Wednesday morning. That way I have a weekend night to enjoy and so does she.
Try to keep everything fair. If you do that then the mediator is good for your sitch.
Also have everything in order when going to see the M so they could draw up the contract. After the contract is drawn up take to your L to make sure their are no hidden items.
Hope this helps. Gr8
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