Quote: I feel very resentful of the fact that he pushed me aside and let her be there for him when he would not let me in. It makes me despair...
Me too. Very upsetting to me to think that when his going got tough he looked elsewhere. To be honest, though, he BLAMED me for everything... he transferred his guilt, his anger, everything about his mom and her death to me. He made it all my fault. So, there was no way he could have turned to me. So, in a very weird way, I was there for him, to be the punching bag, yes, but hopefully some day he will understand that. The other day he said that OW would never wait 6 mos for him (I was telling him he should give himself a break from her...) and I thought, gee, I would, and I have. If only they could see who truly loves them, unconditionally. I suppose we can only pray that someday they will.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
