She's the one who cheated and lied to her husband, he walked out on HER and wouldn't talk to her for months. He filed for D and told her it was over... He again dodged her for months.
NOW.. NOW he's agreed to start dating once a week... NOW... D still pending he's agreed to meet once a week to explore resolution... NOW
YOu need to read that post and see that it takes time to process when you attach blame to a spouse and finally accept that its not them, its you feeling miserable and you need to clean your own mess up for the first time in your life.
