My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

[LSG]

Hi SunnyD,

You are right about her trying to control the R. She asked again about the insurance, and it started an argument. I let myself get pulled down that path.

I argued about other things I knew I should not about the affair and our marriage.

She said it is my fault because I don't have a job and other things. She would not tell me what I did. She said I am the reason she cheated. I need to take responsiblity for what I did. I told her to tell me what I did, and I would take responsibility for it. I told her I would not taeke responsibility for the A.