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Hi Opt. Well your positives sound great. I really appreciate your venting here - it provides insight as well.

My H doesn't have OW, but boy, I don't know how you do it. I think that would be one thing that would keep me from biting my tongue and being patient. You are right in your feelings of confusion and frustration where she is concerned.

Hopefully after your brother is gone, you two can begin to work on that issue. You certainly don't want to do it now when he is already uncomfortable.

I can also appreciate your apprehension at the Nov 19 date but look at the positive side - your H is living with you and wearing his ring - he is not with her and when he is, she is simply the hired help and not anything more! How's them apples?!?!?

Hope you are feeling better soon and the bug leaves your home for the rest of the winter!