Get Dobson's book as soon as you can. You will find unbelievable peace of mind reading it!
Remember the things W tells you (" didn't start EA until I realized 100%"... ABM syndrome...only stayed because of the house...all of that) is just part of WAS rationalization and justification process. Emotions are extremely fickle! Dobson even wrote a book called Emotions, Can You Trust Them.
Do whatever you need to do to GAL! It's the best therapy.
