Thank you again, SA. My appt. with my lawyer is on Thursday afternoon. I do much better at putting my thoughts on paper in letter form than scribbling points down on a paper. I think I will do that and let him 'lawyer-it-up' That may be the best approach. I've reached a point where I want to move on, but am stuck at the same time by my own design. I believe someone put it best as moving down a hallway, just leaving the door ajar so that WH can peek in and follow if he wants.
Thanks Again to all you DB'rs out there for the support.